Some thoughts, mainly random rantings. I was 23 when I started this blog, and as time goes on some thoughts will remain the same, some views may change when I am no longer the observer but actually the performer, in this play that is life. These thoughts simply reflect a bit of the chaos that plays through my mind every day as I take a moment to observe the little details that I encounter along my path.

Sunday, May 01, 2011

Relationships : the very nature of water...

Was discussing with a friend, human nature and how strong relationships are and how we're related to water;
In that with human relationships we should feel attraction like hydrogen bonds because of the dipole and water's/human's polar nature :)
To feel attraction and then to feel repulsion, it is what defines humans, society and the very structure of water.
but like how water forms hydrogen bonds so too that should be our ability to form relationships, while hydrogen bonds are strong, when they break it will not destroy us as much as if our relationships were covalent, it is then that we destroy our own very nature when a loved one leaves us or dies.
but even so to think about the very nature of water, the cohesive properties of molecules to one another and then to realize that it has such a high specific heat, so much energy is needed to change state,to become volatile, but with impurities this can be lowered. In relating to human bonds how impurities in friendships like doubt, avarice, pettiness will lower the strength and destroy what is there.
So in a way to be attached, know the possibility of a bond breaking but also too look forward to new bonds forming, just like water, after all we're about 70% water anyway :)

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