According to shaggy

To be a true playah, yuh haffie know how to play:D...True
(please don't confuse the names of those you're playing;))
elaboration on phone conversations try to avoid names when talking,
on messenger conversations if you must use names at least look at the window before typing.
and most important never call the wrong name when in person..Names like honey, babe darling etc etc were invented to avoid such mishaps;)

and if caught always remember...IT WASN'T ME